Our God Reigns

I am a believer and I’m not ashamed of that… I don’t and won’t judge your belief structure God allows us freedom of choice xxx I’ve made my choice and right or wrong I’m sticking to it.


Keep your friends close…

Becareful who you trust… Who you allow into your inner circle, that closed group that you tell your most private heart felt thoughts with. Maybe in life its best to just keep it so close that only you have that right or privelaged inner key and no one else but God and your family 

is allowed into that space. 

I get too involved at the best of times and I always trust too much. There are people that find it easy to make every aspect of your life a competition not allowing you to have even one thing that’s just you and only you are (within your inner circle) good enough at. They smile in your face and spread poison around behind your back. They break you down for their claim on your lack of supporting them when they needed you most and accuse you of not caring enough. Its all a lie to build themselves up to sainthood and break you down. Don’t lose faith or hope because God is not mocked and will reveal the truth in the end. 

Be careful of that wolf in sheep’s clothing. The “friend” who throws you straight under the bus filled with tourists and sumo wrestlers as soon as you turn your back or who beeps as you step back in their company. There is an old saying that says.. “Keep your friends close and your enemies closer” they are generally known as frenemies…

How sad it is in life when the only ones in your life that you know you can trust (besides God) are your direct family. How sad it is that people judge you in here say and take the gossipers word over yours. How dismal and sad it is that even in groups you are ignored and skinnered (gossiped) about. Its more than dismal and sad its purely pathetic. 

I thank God for powering me through situations when I feel I can’t go on. I m blessed to have people who legitimately and honestly take me as I am. I will be successful in my actions and activities in 2018 and haters will always be haters wherever they go.. 

If ever you have questions or queries about me or my family why don’t you go directly to me (or the person you ultimately have questions about) and ask directly. You might be blown away to hear the answers and that way you too can stop playing broken telephone and stop adding that juicy tail onto the story to juice it up a bit. #ihaveitongoodauthority generally means.. I heard a story and wanted to jazz it up a bit for effect! 

For now I’ll play along with the childish games because I love peace and generally hate confrontation (especially when you turn around and play the glorified victim) and I’ll put on a show (clown that I am) and maybe one day you’ll realize what you did. Yes, I do forgive you! God knows I do!

So good bye little one you may continue on your journey!


As you start your day…

So today after a month off its a difficult pill to swallow to go back into the work day routine!!!!

Its true however to know that even though I had a great holiday its good to get back into the routine and I missed my kids so very much. So let’s do this xxx


loosely translated…

Cry, scream, bite your nails, hit your pillow, take a dump, pray, cry sime more. But Pleeeeeeease… JUST DONT GIVE UP!!!!



The day that was xxx

Ever just had a day that started one way and whoosh life through a curve ball and bam things changed! For the better or for worse but different and not what you expected at all. A total 180ยฐ change in the direction to where you thought you would be in your 5 year plan. 

The road might be bumpy and rocky , it might even feel like the rollercoaster ride you would not even want in your worst nightmare. It will get better so just hold on!

When life hands you lemons add some water and apple cider vinegar and lose some weight.

This is the year to shine and with that I’m not saying everyday is going to be peachy keen with moonshine and roses every day  andyou will most certainly not have sparkles every step of the way. In reality #### will still happen but its how we react to the situation that’s going to make or break us. This year we need to allow ourselves to go loco when needed but bounce back and see the joy and good in that which surrounds us! Live free from grudges and disharmony or anything that steals the happiness that we have inside.

Keep it real. 


What can I say (1973) I am blessed!

This is so true ๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ™‚๐Ÿ‘Œ๐Ÿผ
A youngster asked his grandfather “Grandpa! How did you people live before with:
No technology

No aeroplanes

No internet

No computers

No dramas

No TVs

No aircons

No cars

No mobile phones?”
Granddad replied:

“Just like how your generation live today
No prayers

No compassion

No honor

No respect

No character

No shame

No modesty”
We, the people born between 1950-1989 are the blessed ones…

Our life is living proof.

๐Ÿ‘‰We played until dusk; we never watched TV.
๐Ÿ‘‰We played with real friends, not internet friends.


๐Ÿ‘‰ If we ever felt thirsty, we drank tap water not bottled water.


 ๐Ÿ‘‰We never got ill sharing the same glass of juice with four friends.


๐Ÿ‘‰Nothing happened to our feet despite roaming barefoot.
๐Ÿ‘‰We never used any supplements to keep ourselves healthy.


๐Ÿ‘‰We used to create our own toys and play with those.


 ๐Ÿ‘‰Our parents were not rich. They gave love.. not worldly materials.


๐Ÿ‘‰We never had cellphones, DVDs, play station, XBox, video games, personal computers, internet, chat – but we had real friends.
 ๐Ÿ‘‰We visited our friend’s home uninvited and enjoyed food with them.


๐Ÿ‘‰We may have been in black and white photos but you can find colourful memories in those photos.
๐Ÿ‘‰   We are a unique and the most understanding generation, because we are the last generation who listened to their parents…. 

and also the first who have had to listen to their children.
We are a LIMITED edition! Enjoy us. Learn from us. Treasure us.
Sent to me by a friend on WhatsApp. Author unknown (to me) Thank you Connie Conway!!

Much love